If she's happy on an America take her to a dealer.....
The hair bow thing... I presume she has long hair. It's a bugger to get the knots out after a ride, so it could just be that she took it out after getting back and needed somewhere to put it... Just rest assured it's not a girly thing. There are no hair things on my America....
If she really wanted it you'd know about it. But then maybe she's already let you know.