I know (knew) a guy in Ottawa that was gender unsure when he was younger. Eventually started to dress, first just at home, then going out evenings, and finally full time. He was a govt. employee, and even came out at work. He (hereafter referred to as she) did the hormone therapy treatments, electrolysis, and finally full SRS surgery. It was a long and difficult journey for her, but she wanted to be a woman more than most real women I know. I really liked this person as a quality human being, and I understand a lot better now about someone being "a woman trapped in a man's body". I haven't seen her in many years, and our friendship was always strictly platonic...but sometimes I felt uncomfortable being alone with her...I mean, what if she wanted me to be her first...you know... I don't think I'm THAT open-minded!
