Okay Soren... here are some ideas for games.
Monster Jam Maximum Destruction. I don't do video games much myself but I do play this one with all of my kids (ages 8-18). It's a blast. All about destroying each others well built weapon filled monster trucks. Very fun and the higher the volume the better.
My 18 year old suggests these also as he plays all the time with his younger siblings, friends, etc.
Smashing Drive, Nascar Dirt to Daytona, and Burnout 2: Point of Impact (I guess this one has crash courses where you try to do as much damage as you can in an accident). He said if you have PS1, PS2 or N64 to try Destruction Derby. Also for Game Cube is a game called Rampage:Total Destruction that he said would be cool but has nothing to do with vehicles.
JT