Got 3 myself and can't say anything bad about any of them. But what I wanted to say is , don't blame anybody for how a child turns out. You do your best and then it us up to them . I have a friend who has twins , both boys, one is a nice young guy got a nice girlfriend and is on track to go far. Works and makes his own car payments and seems to be a good kid when I see him . The other is a demon , always in some kind of trouble , has wrecked a car and has no ambition at all , thinks he is entitled to everything and shows no one and nothing any respect. Always trying to belittle his brother and would kick the cat if it pissed him off. And yet these two were raised by the same people in the same house eating the same food. Go figure, I think outside influences play a big role these days and can reak havoc on a home in some cases. It's like some people have a drink and turn into drunks and some have a drink and decide they don't care for it and never drink again and these two people can be from the same family , why heck they can even be twins.
