My condolences to you and your family for your loss. I lost both of my parents already, and so I know a little of what you are going through. Currently my Wife's Mother is expected to pass away with the next couple of days from Alzheimer's.

Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety. Benjamin Franklin, US author, diplomat, inventor, physicist, politician, & printer (1706 - 1790)