It has gotten so bad over the years, I broke down and took it to a dealer. The service guy sort of mocked the EFI on the 2009-2010s. I know they simpler than what they are selling now, but... whatever.
He indicated that the computer keeps certain of the electronics fully on up to 2 hours after turned off and key removed. I can not imagine why, but I believe him. He said there is a "city tune" for the computer to help this. I wonder how that will play with my TORs, but suppose I will fine out in a few weeks.
I am pretty certain there is also a short in the neutral switch and or side stand switch or somewhere. Had to throw money at it...