Their is nothing to get. Most people are so narcissistic that they are bordering on sociopathy. So nothing you do that is even slightly different is not only frowned upon but also castigated.

I have no faith in human perfectability. I think that human exertion will have no appreciable effect upon humanity. Man is now only more active - not more happy - nor more wise, than he was 6000 years ago. Edgar Allan Poe