Exactly Stew. What it REALLY "takes" is for halfwits OR people who already have their OWN particular problems to realize that they AREN'T "Parent Material".
(...but fat chance of THAT ever happenin' in this crazy ol' world...LET ALONE in these United States!!!!)
Yep! Just like a good Single Malt Scotch, you might call me "an acquired taste" TOO.(among the many OTHER things you may care to call me, of course)