I think I know how Chad feels, believe it or not I'm a little rough around the edges too. I am uncomfortable at these kind of things too. Unless it's a biker thing because then we are all rough. I have gone for support of the living when I felt it needed but even with people I know I would rather remember them as they were in life not death. I do go for them being planted though.

I learned all I need to know about life by killing smart people and eating their brains.
Eat right ,Exercise ,Stay fit, Die Anyway!