Erle... I understand the sentiments you so graciously shared with the rest of us, and I appreciated learning about an artist I didn't even know. If anyone misconstrued your posts as antisocial in any way, well I'm not sure how that could happen. As for the title you used... I guess you could have capitalized the 's' in 'slit' to make it stand out as a name, that being the name of her band. Otherwise the title of this thread stands as a true representation of the content you posted.
I believe some members here might be getting a bit edgy due to a certain friggin' a$$hat of a troll hangin' around here who seems to gloat in the aftermath of upsetting a perfectly healthy community. This might have contributed to any misunderstanding pertaining to you.
As for this thread of yours, I thank you for posting it and totally understand how the untimely death of Ari Up IS upsetting to you and many others I am sure. Again, may she R.I.P.