For sure she's not eligible to join the band... she's just too messed up for that at least for now. She is a decent person, that much I can tell. And as Ian put it... she has to REALLY want to quit drinking AND have the will power to do it. When I drove her home last night after the botched audition she was fighting back the tears and frankly, so was I. It just kills me to see such a young, gifted person waste away on booze (or anything else for that matter). She just got her guitar outta the pawn shop... her amp is still there. She needed the money to drink. Wow!! I'm thinking I'll be her friend... maybe a little 'tough love' will make a difference.