Keith,
most people these days would just pass some debilitating comment about her and walk away without a second thought.
The fact that you care enough to take the extra step with a complete stranger shows the quality of your heart and makes up for all the other dweebs we sometimes meet in our lives and make us wonder if mankind is about to be extinct!
Good luck with this, don't get your hopes up so you don't feel let down later if it doesn't turn out to be what you expect, ... but having someone who cares can sometimes turn a life around...