My wife says "if you can catch her, you can have her".
I'm not so sure how to take that, but by the time I figure it out, I come to my senses.
As my Grandmother once said about my Grandfather "He would be like a dog chasing a car, he wouldn't know what to do with it if he caught it."
I think she may have underestimated him.
We all like to think of ourselves as rugged individualists. But when push comes to shove most of us are sheep who do what we are told. Worst of all, a lot of us become unpaid agents of whoever is controlling the agenda by enforcing the current dogma on the few rugged individualists who actually exist.