A good friend of mine did a similar thing when their daughter was unable to raise her child properly. This was the same Harley guy who advised me to peek in the door of the MiZZoula Triumnph dealer in 2003 when the America hit the scene.

My hat was off to him then and you & your wife now

jh

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