Dave sorry to hear of your lost. My heart truely goes out to you.
Lost my mother to a long illest in 2000, she was 55.
As you can see that some of us have been threw what your going threw. You have friends here to lean on in the hard times and the good times.
I will say that my Dad has learn how to use the computer, if we could only teach him how to use a debit card. Baby steps...