He shouldn't have a problem with you taking the lead,, you have to think of your own safety as much as his. If he is just as experienced as you, then he will keep up.
I used to ride for years and quit in 97 when my brother died in a motorcycle wreck, I just pick up a bike again last summer, so I am still rusty. I myself prefer to be at the back of the pack, that way I don't feel pushed to take the curves as fast as everyone else till I get back in the hang of things. Funny I don't have a problem going 100+ in a straight line,,lol.
