That stinks, having to be nice when you are going through the illness of your grandfather. Do your supervisors know your personal situation? I guess most have to be professional at their place of employment no matter what's going on with your life. I tend to be a little too "honest" at work and have run off two case managers from my office. Since I work for the State and have been there almost 20 years you almost have to kill someone or steal something before you can be fired though.
