Thank you all. Talked to my mom today and there will be no funeral at his request. He wants to be cremated and part of his ashes at our cabin that he loved and the rest on top of a mountain in Delaware Water Gap on Park Service land then we are to have a party, these are his wishes and they sound just like what he would want.
My aunt has a great group of friends there were always 2 in the waiting room at the hospital and they brough breakfast,lunch,and dinner to her there every day. When my mom and aunt got home from the hospital they had dinner all ready and waiting at my aunts house. They asked my mom how long she was staying so they knew how many to cook for. They really are a great bunch. Makes me feel much better to know she has a group of friends like that to take care of her and she won't be alone.

I learned all I need to know about life by killing smart people and eating their brains.
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