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I would say this, though, it's "safer" to extend love than to withhold it, even when it seems poorly received. Of course, that only becomes obvious upon reflection as the present offers its own unique obstacles to peace.



Very true! I find that I can best love my aunt now through my actions as advocate (running interference with medical providers, dealing with insurance issues, etc.) and by supporting my mother in her direct daily care of my aunt ( dropping up food, running errands, listening to her share her pain about the situation- she's losing her only sister, and one of her last remaining close peers.) Love is a verb.

"Let your soul shine, It's better than sunshine, It's better than moonshine, ****** sure better than rain." -ABB