OK. now I've read the whole thread. I still say Don't do it! You're Active Duty, that, in and of itself cuts costs. Base Chapel, NCO Club, Ya see where I'm going w/ this? You can give her an Unforgettable Wedding, especially if Y'all leave the Chapel on your bike!, for little or next to no money. Other than her dress, and the reception, you have no costs, and surely her folks can buy the dress!?! Think long and hard before you give up your bike.