Very sorry to hear of his medical problems, I deal with Wendys all the time and it at times scares me too. I know exactly how you feel. I'm glad I don't have to deal with one of our kids being sick and in real danger. I am sure, as above, your being there made a big difference in strength and comfort for him. Just like many things I have experienced in my life wish there was some way to make it not so or him all better so he never has to go through that again. We take a big chance when we love since we all know life is temporary and really should be cherished. That is all too often lost in the daily hustle and bustle. I wake up when I think of things like this and want to not ever be mad at anyone since most of the time what we get mad about is trivial by comparison but then we get lost in the moment. I truly hope the rest of your holiday goes better.

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