Just got back in town and read this - shocked , I'm SO sorry , I can't imagine how you feel and I WON'T say I KNOW how you feel , experientially , I DON'T know . I too know the burning pain of great loss , but a spouse is different . I think that it's interesting that you would come here to find solace , that's a good indictment of the comeraderie found here . Pain will eventually diminish , memories will not , hold on to them . All that I have to offer is sincere condolence , prayer , and a listening ear . Wade and Derinda .
