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I am currently on a business trip, and I found out earlier this evening, from my in-laws, that my beautiful wife has very unexpectedly past away. My purpose in posting this isn't to burden any of you with my grief, but I have to tell someone how frustrated, upset and how totally devastated I am. Life just isn't fair, and this just hurts too much. I am hoping to be home very early Thursday. Not sure what I will do once I get home. I have that feeling of everything being completely out of control.
Tell the ones you love how much you love then and often...
Tom
Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.
Benjamin Franklin, US author, diplomat, inventor, physicist, politician, & printer (1706 - 1790)
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Tom
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Stewart
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"It's outside your field of expertise."
"Poppycock normally is."
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Can't imagine whats going through your head brother. Take care of yourself. Sad to hear 
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Tom,
I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel... I am speechless, I honestly cannot think of a single thing to say that I would deem to be a comfort. You and yours are in my thoughts and have my deepest sympanthies.
Steve
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Tom,
I'm sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Be strong.
Regards,
-Ward
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I can't begin to imagine the shock this was to you, Tom.
My sincere condolences.
Yep! Just like a good Single Malt Scotch, you might call me "an acquired taste" TOO.(among the many OTHER things you may care to call me, of course)
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Tom,
I'm so sorry. I know I can't know how hard it is, but just remember to keep breathing in and out.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Rex
SFC, US Army (Ret)
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I am very sorry to hear that. The pain and loss of any family member is horrible and to be one so close the worst. I feel for you and hope you can find the strength to think of the happy times and get past the grieving. I am sure she would have wanted you to be happy. I know that doesn't mean much now but none the less true.There is nothing I or anyone can do to fix this or take the pain away.
I learned all I need to know about life by killing smart people and eating their brains.
Eat right ,Exercise ,Stay fit, Die Anyway!
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I cannot even begin to imagine the shock, especially being out of tow. My absolute deepest condolences and prayers for you and your family.
Soren
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Trev
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A bike has half the wheels my cage does.. but 3x the fun factor
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I simply can't imgine what you are feeling right now. I'm so sorry for your loss. We'll be praying for you and your family.
Learning from my mistakes... again and again.
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I'm so sorry Tom.
My prayers for you and all who love her.
Contra todo mal, mezcal; contra todo bien, también
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Tom- I'm so sorry. Surround yourself with those that love you and your wife. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Bryan Jennings
2002 Bandit 1200/ GSXR cams/ 1277 BB Kit/ Holeshot header and can/ 38mm flatslides/ a good head/lotsa hp/lotsa tq- lots of rear tires...
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Gods blessings and my prayers to you and your family...Bob
life is good..I am retired..sold my America in 2008,bought a Rocket and sold that in 3/2013 and now own a new Triumph Bonneville T-100
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Hang in there.Do yourself and family a favor and do not ride your bike until your head is on straight from this.I turned left in front of a car years ago after hearing of a family member passing and almost got into an accident.Sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My wife and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
"Wise men speak because they have something to say, fools because they have to say something."
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My condolences to you and your family. My thoughts will be with you.
'07 America
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Tom- I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. You're right that there are times when life just isn't fair, when it's utterly tragic and almost beyond bearing. My prayers for your care.
"Let your soul shine,
It's better than sunshine,
It's better than moonshine,
****** sure better than rain."
-ABB
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Tom,
I wish I could say something but I just don't know what but know that my prayers are with you.
John
Like a dog on a car ride with my tongue in the wind
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Tom, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers, brother...Gordon
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I'm sorry to hear that, Tom. My condolences to you and your family.
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours, the Alexander family...
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My thoughts are with you, Tom.
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My condolences to you and your family
Chuck
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WOW! My sincerest condolences brother. This just blew me away feeling for you. I hope that God holds you in the palm of his hand for awhile to help you get through this.
Ride On!
Airguy
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Tom,
Wish I knew the right words, but will echo all those said. Take care of yourself.
jh
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I am so sorry, Tom. Take care. Your and family are in my prayers.
Dave
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Oh my! So sorry to hear that. We will be thinking about you.
I try to aggravate one person a day. Today may be your day.
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Tom, My condolences to you and your family
Ray(UK)
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My condolences.
Nothing more really I can say.
Gina
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06 America - missing, presumed in bits. With it's TBS wheel...
09 America - It's very blue....
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Tom, If you need ANYTHING, call me and I'll do what I can. I recently had an emergency call to return home while in Albuquerque, and the helpless feeling of not being there is devistating. Fortunately, I had no loss of life to contend with. My thoughts are with you and your family. PM with Phone # to you.
Take care,
later, Tom.
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my condolenses and good thought coming your way!
please post in the next few days so we know that YOU are ok.
-Tony
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Sorry man.You are in my prayers
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Tom,
I have no words that could help right now, just know that I feel for you and you are in my prayers.
I've become comfortably numb
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I am so sorry, Tom. I will be praying for you. I hope that you have family and friends that can help you through this tough time. You have many friends here that will be thinking and praying for you also.
With Sympathy, Paul Stewart
"Catching a yellow jacket in your shirt at seventy miles per hour can double your vocabulary" Author unknown
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Tom, I lost my wife ten years ago, she was thirty two. My heart is breaking for you and your family. While it seems impossibble at this time, I hope, and believe, that your indescribable pain will gradually be somewhat offset by the beautiful memories that nobody can ever take away from you. Know that people you've never even met are thinking of you at this time.
Good luck, Paul Molloy
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Not one for prayer but peace and respect to your and yours. You have my deepest sympathies.
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Lynn and I love you Tom. Anything anytime
God Bless
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I am so sorry for yout tragic loss. May God hold you in the palm of his hand during this time of grief.
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