Guys, I have removed and wire brushed everything associated with the starter. Replaced the relay,starter solenoid. Checked all connections, all fuses and re greased. Not a bit of corrosion anywhere.
I even cleaned the block and bolts with a wire brush

I cleaned the start button with contact cleaner. The only thing left is the starter. I have suspected the starter from the beginning. Everyone seems to think it's not the starter.
Well I will find out next week.I purchased a used starter from a member. I'm going to pull my starter and take both to have tested.
We'll see. If that's not it I might have a beautiful 03 America for sale. This shat is getting old.
Mike