ok , relay is a bosch 12v 0 332 209 137.headlights do work, low and hi beam if that helps. the pin config is the same numbers all match (85,86 87,30)however the middle pin is 87a.
the schematic on the side of the bosch is different from the org and from your o reilly relay . as i stated lights work and i,m still getting the clicking . hope this helps you .

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