If you want to travel from Woodstock through Millerton, NY to get there, I'll ride with you. I live a little ways off route 44 just over the CT border.
I have to drive my daughter to BDL for a 7:00 am flight on the 19th, so I'll be back home around 8:30. An 8:30 or 9:00 am departure from my house would put us in East Hampton by 10:30, which could allow a breakfast stop at Toymakers.