I completely hear what you're saying. And since the little lady has been talking about "babies" in a year or so I probably will never get the upgrade....LOL
I'd better get the Triumph now.
All jokes aside - the America is probably the way to go. Laying it down is the big fear (as it feels a bit heavier than the V Star). But learning to ride on your "dream bike" and having it for years and years is probably priceless. Most likely I'll be opting for this used 07. I hope the dealer comes back w/ a nice deal.