Addendum - to avoid a stupid mistake , confer with you wife or most women , just grab one - God has blessed them with an innate intuition to avoid pitfalls . Men plow ahead , women proceed cautiously ( generally ) . She told me to not to , but I went ahead , shoulda listened , paying the equivalent of a new America every month , ouch and ouch . Listen to them , OK , jump in here Gina and Goddess !