Sorry for your loss. It's extra sad when a person loves to ride, but gets taken out by doing stuff that interferes with that love. That's why I've cut back to a 24 pack in a year or more.
Oddly enough, my OL got herself a 'Property of' tattoo a couple years ago. She said that she figured that after 20 years together, she wouldn't be able to put up with anyone else anyway. For many, a property patch isn't so much a sign of ownership as a message saying, "Behave yourself around this person and treat her with proper respect because she's spoken for and you don't want her OM coming for you."