Grump:
I clean my chain about 2x's a year with Kerosone, works like a charm, takes about 15 minutes. I've used BelRay SuperClean Chain lube since day one. I put on a light coat every 500 - 1000 miles. At 10k, I've had to adjust my chain once so it must be working pretty well. I typically apply after a ride and let the bike sit overnight. I get zero fling and my chain stays pretty clean. The BelRay stuff is white so you can see exactly how much you apply. The lube is really only stopping rust on our x-ring chains so a light application is all that is needed. My wheels and chrome chain guard stay spotless, give it a try.
