Chances are you just aren't used to the sound of the valve train yet. It's noisy if it's shimmed right. Now there is a difference between noisy and excessivly noisy. I think your best bet is your first idea and that is to let someone who is familiar with the sound listen and if they think it's too noisy then worry about the remedy.

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