Live and learn - I've lived around CT for at least 40 of 49 years, and always thought Oakdale was near Wallingford. I was thinking, how can Benny be near 395 in Oakdale, so I ran it on the map software. Zuh!

Must be because of the Oakdale Theater in Wallingford that I came up with that theory.
[Please tell me there's no Wallingford Theater in Oakdale]