Since we are expecting our first child this summer, we are going to have the same problem. We both ride, but with work conflicts etc we rarely got to ride together. But we both have friends that ride and most of them have kids. So Cathy might take off on a mothers ride one day and leave the kids with the guys and we will do the same another day. Also the club we ride with there is usually someone who is willing to take the kids for a while. With Cathy being pregnant this summer, she probably won't be out on her bike, so she will be the designated baby sitter for a while.