Benny,
Look at it from this angle, you and Kim are both young and just starting your lives together, no kids (yet). Look at what ever you do going forward as an adventure.
I truely believe that a solid marriage is built on those frist couple of years of shared struggles, macarion and cheese, popcorn and peanut butter.
The only differnce between you and Kim and Linda and I is that your both established, we got married when I was still in school and she was just starting off as a lowly book keeper. That is one tough decision to make giving up the lifestyle you both are use to to go where you both want and start all over again, but at least you are where you want to be.
Good things happen to good people and your the best. You will land on your feet no matter what you guy's decide to do, but after 25 years of marriage we still remember those times when it was just the two of us and who ended up with heel of the loaf of bread.
