I finally got my valves from Manley and sent everything off to Pat's guy(Seely engine machine) in NY. Valves were $200, and the shop estimated $500 for BB install, port/polish, install larger valves, and set valve/cam clearance. Shipping was about $60 each way for everything, but not having a machine shop I trust around here it is worth it to me. Especially since they have done this work on the same motor before.
It's definately costing more than I thought it would, but if it runs like I think it will I won't complain.