No.. I understand perfectly.. it's you I believe who are missing the point.
I simply ask that you refrain from prefacing your posts in such a manner.

This is a public forum and as such posters are sometimes open to ridicule. If this is something you don't deal with well then don't make posts that will open you up to their remarks.

And while I'm sure you'll have something to say in retaliation to this post as well, I can assure you that it will be my last on this subject.Just please bear in my mind that the next thread you start with a statement such as the one above will be edited to it's basic request for help.

And that was the "light" version of my response..