I believe typically the military liason officer is aware of the PGR and monitors the freaks website as well. He/she informs the family with the best info they have available and the family decides to invite the PGR or not. Purely the family's decision and the PGR honors whatever they feel they need to do to mourn and grieve for their great loss. It's that simple.

Ride On! Airguy -------------------- You gotta' be smart to be lazy(and get a job done)