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I'm sure some will pick up on the underlying message here and some will not. Ever worked with someone or it could be a family member that you just didnt want to be around. The guy who thinks he knows everything but as it turns out he really doesnt. You try to be nice, try to get along but he always has a smart remark. Will ask for your opinion or suggestion and when given the reply is "I don't think that's right". Sooner or later you just start avoiding this induvidial. Your at the point where you just can't stand to be around him. I've found if you do not acknowledge this person or respond to their questions and conversations one of three things will happen. He will (1) change his ways, probably not! (2) find someone else to annoy. (3) go away. Hopefully he will choose option (3) but then again this person is so full of himself he doesn't even realize what a Jerk he is. Stepping down from the soapbox  Mikemm03
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Loquacious
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I'm sure some will pick up on the underlying message here and some will not.
(3) go away.
Are you trying to tell me something? I am a little dense sometimes...... 
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"It's outside your field of expertise."
"Poppycock normally is."
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there is one guy i work with who comes to mind...... but if asked i'm sure he'd feel you just discribed ME...
The percentage you're paying is too high-priced
While you're living beyond all your means
And the man in the suit has just bought a new car
From the profit he's made on your dreams
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Should be Riding
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I worked for that guy for almost six years then finally quit.
Soren
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Contra todo mal, mezcal; contra todo bien, también
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Fe Butt
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The guy who thinks he knows everything but as it turns out he really doesnt. You try to be nice, try to get along but he always has a smart remark. Sooner or later you just start avoiding this individual
Hmmmm...note to self...stop sending those PMs to Mike. I think I now know why he's not returning my messages. 
Yep! Just like a good Single Malt Scotch, you might call me "an acquired taste" TOO.(among the many OTHER things you may care to call me, of course)
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The paranoid side of says "hey, you're talking about me". The realist side of me says "I hope that I'm not like that". The optimistic side of me says " That's not me, but I know people like that and they reallly pi** me off".
Yes, I have and continue to work with people like that and I hear what you're saying loud and clear. Commiserations!
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The paranoid side of says "hey, you're talking about me". The realist side of me says "I hope that I'm not like that". The optimistic side of me says " That's not me, but I know people like that and they reallly pi** me off".
In reality we each are all of the above. Not always intentionally, not always by accident. That's why it is important to look beyond the asshat and try to understand somedays we get to do the critique and some days we get critiqued, somedays we’re the ringmaster and others we’re the clown, other days we’re a genius, and others we’re the village idiot. Try to be tolerant. Try to forgive. And, by all means try to have the balls to be honest with the person that rubs you the wrong way. It may very well be a misunderstanding and easily rectified. Oh, and I hope it ain’t me, too!!!
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Mike , I do Not think your premise is right !
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Okay, you found me. So what's your point?
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If a nation expects to be ignorant and free, in a state of civilization, it expects what never was and will never be.----Thomas Jefferson
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As I stated earlier, "Hopefully he will choose option (3) but then again this person is so full of himself he doesn't even realize what a Jerk he is." That being said he will not understand this was directed at him! 
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After #3
Hey Spikey can I huh huh Can I spikey huh Spikey huh huh
...maybe it means you're the evil man. And I'm the righteous man. And Mr. 9 Milimeter here, he's the shepherd protecting my righteous azz in the valley of darkness. Or it could mean you're the righteous man and I'm the shepherd and it's the world that's evil and selfish. Now I'd like that. But that sh_t ain't the truth. The truth is you're the weak. And I'm the tyranny of evil men. But I'm tryin', Ringo. I'm tryin' real hard to be a shepherd.
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Fe Butt
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Yep! Just like a good Single Malt Scotch, you might call me "an acquired taste" TOO.(among the many OTHER things you may care to call me, of course)
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Well I never!!! (and then the Groucho side of me says "Well there you have it, maybe you ought to!" 
Randy:
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