Nevermind! I went to Radio Shack & got an illuminated SPST panel switch for the console & a 30A SPST relay and wired the spotlight bar right up (total cost about $7.00

- the stock relay from WOT was $22.90+$15.00 S&H= $37.90!!

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I did blow a 10A fuse & the LH h3 in the process (load testing the circuit w/ a couple of exposed connections). but that's no big deal...new H3's on order from Fast Eddy.
Problems solved ...pics to follow...rumble on