I don't know how many of you guys have a relationship with your son that allows you to say I Love You as often as possible. I fortunately do and always will. My Son spent 3 back to back tours in the worst part of Baghdad as part of a strike team, I was able to speak to him once in awhile on SAT phone or yahoo chat, I never said goodbye without speaking those words. My ending was better than John Vigiano's, my son came home but I knew that if he had not there would never be that nagging thought of what our last words were. Always take that extra second needed to let you son, daughter, wife know how much you care. Bless John and his sons.